Kelly,
You are wise to be concerned about the negativity. It
spreads and if
you allow it, you will certainly get more as the year
progresses.
Von and I have been reading the Fred Jones book. He
suggests that if
you do nothing about this, you are declaring open war
on the
teacher. The students now have a way to sabotage your
class.
So, the first thing is to not ignore it EVER. I am
sure others will
have other ideas on this. Different personalities can
get away with
different things.
1. I always was very open with my feelings. I liked,
“Class, one thing, I won’t allow you to be negative in
my class. I
don’t care if you think this is stupid, wonderful or
just another
day. But you have to know, I won’t allow anyone to
say anything
negative about this class. I think I just heard
someone say
something, so if you ever feel the urge to say
something negative, I
am going to help you. Just force yourself to smile
and say, “Me
gusta la clase de espanol.”
Now we are going to practice this. Everyone just say,
“Me gusta la
clase de espanol.”
Is that clear. Is there anyone who doesn’t
understand?
First violation.
I think I just heard someone say something negative
about the class.
Do you remember the rule? What do you say? Who
doesn’t remember
it. OK class, we need to practice again. When you
feel anything
negative about this class you just say, “me gusta la
clase de
espanol.” Ok, let’s practice.
Second violation
More of the same unless it is one kid. If you have
one negative kid,
you can then say,
“Gringo, I want to talk to you after class.”
After class,
“Gringo, that really hurt me when you said that about
my class. Do
you remember my rule? Can you follow it? Now,
tomorrow, when you
come to class I want you to say, “Me gusta la clase de
espanol.”
OK?
Get more and more firm but do not allow that one kid
to sabotage your
class.
I learned is Sunday School, “It is better that one man
perish than a
nation dwindle in unbelief.” Here is it better to
lose one student
than to lose the class.
Blaine